I own and operate the Shayoli Hope Center for Healing in Utah County. I work together with an independent team of collaborators who have messages that I find valuable for whole healing and prosperity.
At Shayoli Hope we are dedicated to bringing healing, hope, and prosperity to God-centered, awakened souls. That means we keep our focus on Christ and God the Father in all of our work together. We believe that in our healing process, we are finding the wheat, and gathering up the tares to burn.
Burning the tares means awareness of what we have believed that hurts (tares), making a new decision to believe something that serves us better (wheat), and collecting the tares, in full awareness, to purge them from the harvest so that we can live free and abundant in wholeness.
We are on the topic of feminine polarity, and I have noticed something.
I’m about halfway through both Fascinating Womanhood, and The Judgement Detox and I’m noticing something.
I want to be treated this way too.
It’s not asking for a manipulative “pretentious act” to earn love from a husband.
It’s asking for the golden rule. Allow me to let you into my head on the golden rule and why I can see that feminine energy (and also feminine polarity – which is different, but related) is directly connected with the golden rule.
When I study anything, or do anything at all, it’s because I got the soul nudge.
There is a REASON why God nudges me to do and study things. That reason is because I have a desire to purge all of the impurities from my mind, heart, body, and life. I say “purge impurities” as if that’s the focus, but the real focus is love and enlightenment.
Lately I heard Aaron Doughty suggest that it’s possible that being in a state (frequency) of enlightenment is simply being present.
I think there’s something to that idea.
Think about it. When you are meditating skillfully you reach purer and purer states of centered peace and in those moments of presence there is no judgement present in you.
Meditation is a skill. It’s developed and you get better at it every time you do it. It’s about focus on being still inside. Just being still and knowing that God has you in his hands.
No judgement. Just… still and safe and… right now.
My journey of faith to manifest a peaceful and joyful relationship with my husband has brought me through a journey of studying divine feminine energy, as well as masculine and feminine polarity (note that these things are RELATED but are very different things).
It has shown me how much cartoons, sitcoms, and movies have influenced me as a child and carrying forward to despise certain feminine energy characteristics – and to despise the positive, polarizing effects that these characteristics have on a man to inspire him to be more positively masculine. This polarity which inspires men to the kind of courage that gives him power to be the heroes who would never cower when they saw a crime happening on the street.
I was taught by media that men are controlling, stupid, easily manipulated, and overly sexual to the point of addiction and deviance. Not to be trusted.
I was also taught this by experience from the time I was a toddler and was molested and brutalized by men, and then repeatedly beaten by a male child as a youth and nobody came to my rescue… there were no heroes in my mind.
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